I often feel that I'll never find someone that I can be happy with. In the past I've had a couple of relationships that weren't great, and the guys involved were controlling and verbally abusive to me...
to such an extent that now if there is even a hint of that it just makes me go completely cold, and usually I lose all interest. It is an overreaction on my part, but I still don't seem to be able to change that.
It seems so deep-rooted that I'm not sure that I'll ever be able to change it. I'd love to find someone to be really close to, a soul-mate, but no sign of him so far 
will I ever find true love? ![]()
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- 2008-08-21 @ 19:42:24
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- 2008-08-21 @ 19:53:47
thanks.
is it this one....
"men are like buses...
big, red, and smelly?"

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- 2008-08-21 @ 19:58:42
sorry - that cracked me up!!! 
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- 2008-08-21 @ 20:00:56
haha

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- 2008-08-22 @ 20:15:05
Me too

and how about... 'and always too late, except when they're too early'?

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- 2008-08-23 @ 17:21:32
teehee! ...took me a little while to get that!!-
- 2008-08-23 @ 19:43:32
Well, don't you find you get used to having to wait?

You might want to get on and do something interesting, like breakfast, or sleep, but...

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- 2008-08-23 @ 21:11:03
haha ... and I love the smiley you've chosen...
how many times have I secretly made that face?
the more I think about it, the more content I feel...
but, of course, when it works all those 'moments' are forgotten...
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- 2008-08-23 @ 21:21:19
I'll take your word for it!

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- 2008-08-23 @ 21:25:24
it's what's inside that really counts though, ain't it?
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- 2008-08-23 @ 21:49:52

And how long it's there for!
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- 2008-08-24 @ 11:20:07
by the way, it was the connection with buses that I didn't immediately understand.
perhaps I should have made that clear
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- 2008-08-24 @ 16:22:13
I knew that!

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- 2008-08-21 @ 20:20:54
lol!
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- 2008-08-22 @ 06:48:14
Of course you will; good things come to those who wait. Not as funny as the above comment, but still pertinent
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- 2008-08-22 @ 12:27:16
thank you...
but do they, really?
or is that just a myth?
is there a divine law that says we will each find true love?
surely there are many people who don't... ?
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- 2008-08-22 @ 17:54:01
if worst comes to the worst just get 12 cats and become the crazy lady down the street from me.
(backup plans are always good)
Or just wait patiently, keep your eyes open and go for it when the guy you suspect could be Mr Right comes along
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- 2008-08-22 @ 19:07:42
good plan

I love cats!!
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- 2008-08-30 @ 01:48:41
lol all the other posts are funny....but.... i duno if its me being naive cuz i havent experienced the world but i think theres someone out there for everyone and u'll find them when ur meant to...and they will understand you completley


of course you will, ever heard the saying: "men are like buses...."