I've been wondering recently if having that little bit of faith in somebody that they can change, is a waste of time. I was cheated on, but forgave him, thinking that if it was a mistake and he loved me just as much as i loved him, we could carry on as normal. I put in so much effort believing that if i was a better girlfriend he wouldn't be tempted to stray again. I was wrong...and ended up more hurt than i was originally. So was i just asking for a repeat performance, or was he just a dodgy one? What do you think? Could you forgive someone who cheated on you, and have the strength to deal with whatever consequences your decision may bring? Let me know...