1. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out that you still care for that person.2. When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
5. There are things you'd love to hear that you would never hear from the person who you would like to hear from, but don't be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from their heart.
6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, in the end it fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
8. A careless word may kindle strife, a cruel word may wreck a life, a timely word may level stress, a loving word may heal and bless.
9. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
10. You can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
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- 2008-11-14 @ 12:23:59
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- 2008-11-14 @ 12:31:26
Trust you - but hey that's life

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- 2008-11-15 @ 21:59:34
No offence, and I'm not getting at you in any way because I know what you mean, but I'm so TIRED of having 9. shoved in my face.
How about 7????-
- 2008-11-15 @ 22:06:07
I didn't write them - someone sent them to me and I thought them worth sharing that's all.
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- 2008-11-15 @ 22:19:21
No, I know.
Sorry, I didn't mean to be nasty.
Just not feeling too great this evening
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- 2008-11-15 @ 22:24:20
No probs - I'm feeling miserable too - yet another lonely Saturday night

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- 2008-11-15 @ 22:36:40

There really should be a 'yes' that doesn't have those happy smiley faces, shouldn't there?
Every Saturday I have a gin & tonic before dinner.
And every Saturday I end up feeling like this
think it's time I went to bed.
Night!

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- 2008-11-15 @ 22:39:14
I usually feel this way on a Saturday night and I haven't had a drink!
Right it's time I wasn't here
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- 2008-11-15 @ 22:41:11
Yes, I don't think it's really just the drink that does it


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- 2009-04-18 @ 21:21:49
You know what? (and yes, it's Saturday night and I'm trawling through old blogs
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1 I still care about him, I still want him to be happy, and whenever I see him he seems so much happier than he was 6 months ago, just like me. we can be friends again, the way it started out, and we don't need any more than that, I want to know he's OK but his happiness is not my responsibility. But I'll never say 'that friendship is how it should have stayed' because if it hadn't, Simon, Laura and baby Flick
would never have come into being.
Funny old thing, life, isn't it???
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- 2009-04-19 @ 09:05:42
You must be bored - this was posted last November!!!!
Oh to love and be loved in return in equal measure
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- 2009-04-19 @ 09:47:19
I was actually looking up some of the old Melinda_blog posts I did on here, and checking whether anyone had written much on it since - evidently not!

But you know, after years and years of longing for that, I honestly don't think it's what I want any more. Now the business of child rearing is safely out of the way, it just seems like a trap. I want my own space and to be happy in my own skin, I like not being beholden to anybody (except where the emotional commitment is still there, as it is with the children, of course). Yes, I'd love a few more romantic encounters, but not with a unique, permanent, inescapable partner.
And see the final sentence of this morning's post. Something occurred to me in the shower after I'd written that - these days, my computer is my soul mate!-
- 2009-04-19 @ 09:53:37
I guess that's where we difer - I want exclusivity (if there's such a word)
I could have a series of romantic encounters (with one particular person who sincerely loves me) but he's married to someonelse and I can't live like that.-
- 2009-04-19 @ 10:08:09
It's something I've learnt - or at least, acknowledged - about myself only recently. I know it makes me unusual as a woman, but it feels very liberating.
When I thought I was falling in love with Himself, before Christmas, I was thoroughly wretched. I've met him again since then, and realise it doesn't have to be that way. I can still enjoy his company every now and again, but I can also be free to meet other men if I want to, or just be on my own.
It was understanding that about myself that really gave me the courage to change my life, though I don't think I fully understood it at the time. For so long, I felt that the point of leaving would to be to find a 'special someone' to be with, and what would happen if I never found that 'special someone'? Now I know that the special someone is myself.
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- 2009-04-19 @ 10:20:02
I'm not looking for a full time live in partner and could settle for the "every now and then" but I do want to be "the only one". It's probably never going to happen but I live in hope.
In the next couple of weeks I'm hoping to have lunch with a single English guy who lives over here. Who knows .......-
- 2009-04-19 @ 10:39:30
Aaahh, good point.

I get round that one by just not thinking about it too hard - and telling myself that it's not what I'm offering, so I don't really expect it in return.
Maybe I'm deluding myself, who knows? For now, it seems to work, but I'm still learning about myself.
Good luck with the lunch, I hope it works out - not necessarily that he's Mr Perfect, but at least that he's good company and you have a good time!
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- 2009-04-19 @ 10:53:53
But I can only "do" monogomy and that's just the way I am.
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- 2009-04-19 @ 11:12:04
Fair enough. And I guess this is just the way I am.
I don't believe either is 'right' or 'wrong' or better or worse, they both have some advantages and cause some problems.
I just think I spent too many years trying to be someone I wasn't.-
- 2009-04-19 @ 11:17:19
How spooky - I've just been doing a post and entitled it "for better or worse"
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- 2009-04-20 @ 11:07:24
For some reason "Mr no-so-perfect" isn't answering my emails. I really don't understand men

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- 2009-04-20 @ 14:05:39

Join the club - and they say we're irrational!
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- 2009-04-20 @ 15:14:32
There may be a simple explanation - I mean we haven't even met yet so I can't have put him off!

I know he's been in the UK so he might still be there - but a quick email wouldn't harm! I don't want to appear pushy so I'll just have to play the waiting game!
jackfrost
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When the door of happiness closes, another slams in your face..bitter me Noooo!


nice quotes..